Now he is saying I always kept him at arms length which is so untrue. You may struggle more to acknowledge the reasons for the breakup if your ex is the one who broke up with you. However, 4 days later he was sleeping with a woman from work who is the exact opposite of everything he's ever said he's wanted. I'm now on NC and not sure what I can do next. I had too in order for me to move on. Thanks Ryan, I will follow what you have instructed.
He has used this as leverage and an excuse to cheat throughout our relationship.
5 Ways To Deal When Your Ex Is Dating Someone New
About a month ago, she send me a msg again asking how I am. For example, you might start by walking for 10 minutes a day. I just think he's using the excuse I won't change because of the girl. Keep in mind that this person is not your direct competition. About 4 months after we broke up we started talking again and I realised that I still loved her. The lovely things he said to me before now after meeting the girl was totally opposite. What will i do?